Author: Kimberly Kingsley

You might think I’m having a hard attack or participating in some kind of erotic activity by the title of this post, but in reality my heart is holding so much love that it feels like it’s going to burst.

Now let me be clear (said in the voice of Obama;), I have no shortage of love in my life, but my summer school students just put me over the edge.

I think what happened is that I decided to love them first. I saw the unique spirit and gifts in each of them – the edgy students, the charming students, the free spirited students and the courageous students. There were gentle giants and future stars in this class.

I won’t go on and on describing each one, even though I want to… But at some point the winds changed and they began pouring love in my direction. By the end of the class it was a full-on love fest.

I’m so honored to have people to “see.” To really see is to fall in love and what we put out there comes back to us tenfold, maybe even a hundredfold, which is why my heart is bursting.

The message contained in The Secret has blasted through the collective consciousness telling us we can have anything we want using the power of our thoughts.

This leaves many of us scratching our heads…Well, can I play basketball like Michael Jordan? I’m pretty sure in my case, that’s a no. So where does our will collide with God’s?

Here’s a thought – It’s All God’s Will. Our only choice is whether or not to accept it. God is synonymous with life. Life is all there is and it is abundant and everywhere. So what if the only real choice we make is to receive or reject life in each moment?

The choices we make in the outer world are endless and as long as we say yes to God or Life on the inside, the outer circumstances naturally fall into place!

This perspective is liberating in that it takes the pressure off the question, “Is this the right choice for me?” Who Cares! We make choices to the best of our ability while remaining steadfastly committed to (married to) the life that’s always trying to move through us.

We are supported by life in two ways. First, it does give us intuitive direction – ALWAYS. When we are connected to it, we hear, see and feel the next right move. Second, It goes before us and “makes the crooked place straight.” So if a situation isn’t right, we are guided in a different direction or the situation transforms to accommodate more life.

It’s ultimately all God’s will and what we choose to do with it is not as important as we think.

“Mommy they killed Bin Laden!” My daughter rushes into the living room to tell me the news. “It’s all over Facebook!”

My face must have dropped because she said, “What’s wrong?” Something akin to sadness washed over me when I heard the news. I had the same feeling when I read that Kadhafi’s youngest son and three grandchildren were killed in a NATO air strike.

What is happening here? Sure feels like world war to me.

911 was tragic. We needed to capture Bin Laden. He needed to be done. Kadhafi needs to be done. People cannot kill other people without retribution… Or can they? WHY ARE WE KILLING SO MANY PEOPLE?

We need to be done too. What ever happened to prisons? Trials? I know it’s going to be necessary to lose lives sometimes, but so many? And so much rejoicing over an other’s death. I’m confused. I’m sad.

Where do you think the energy of an evil person goes when they die? I’d rather let them sit in jail for a lifetime and contemplate their actions. Perhaps spirit will have an opportunity to refine and transmute the darkness as they become aware. Maybe not, I know. But for some, it would.

I would not wish the 911 attacks on anyone. They were horrible and are etched in my memory as deeply as everyone else’s. I’m just concerned that we are perpetuating violence. I like what Jimmy Carter is doing through the Carter Center. He communicates. Listens. Connects. Negotiates. And probably prays.

That’s what I’m doing now. Praying. I pray for all of us to be peace. To find another way to stop the madness.

I honor President Obama and our troops. I bless all who have lost loved ones in terrorist attacks. I pray for the elevation and healing of all souls on this strange and confusing day.

What do you call someone with no attachments? A FREE SPIRIT! Who doesn’t want to be a free spirit?

The most important thing to do to help yourself release people, patterns, habits and things is to make your spiritual self your primary attachment. Meditate daily and listen to your intuition… That way it’s easier to let go of the people and things that give us a false sense of security.

Good luck and enjoy your freedom!

Releasing self-defeating impulses is liberating and it’s not that hard!

Have you given a certain behavior or habit too much power? Are you ready to take your power back and put it in its place?

One more thing that’s necessary to refine sensual impulsivity? Get rid of guilt. Guilt is addicting. If you you do slip up, forgive yourself immediately.

For more info on transforming impulsive behaviors and becoming the best version of yourself check out Portals of Peace on Amazon.

Evolution is an upward ascent that can get tricky and even sticky at times, but the further we go, the better life gets.  As we walk this journey together, it’s helpful to be aware of the sticky spots – the places where it’s easy to get stuck. In my experience there are three major areas that will surely pull us down if we don’t carefully navigate and rise above them.

The first sticky spot we encounter on this journey is sensual temptation. The unmistakable feeling we get from boozing it up, eating a huge and sublimely sweet ice cream sundae, or hopping in the sack with that forbidden someone. Being a person who favors integration over renunciation, I’m not saying that any of these things are bad… That is until we impulsively indulge one too many times and the special something or someone suddenly becomes our favorite go-to high. Voila, we’re stuck. Navigating this area involves refining our impulsive drive for immediate gratification – firmly saying “NO” to the wild animal within that would tear into our favorite indulgence time after time, only to become more out of control.

Once we tame our inner wild animal and learn how to enjoy life’s pleasures without them owning us, we move on to the next level or opportunity for ascent. This is where we are faced with our limiting attachments, which on the surface, make us feel secure, but in reality keep us tethered. They can come in the form of a relationship, a job, or any situation in life that you’ve been feeling overly attached to and somewhat trapped by. The way to tell if your stuck here is to see how you feel when you contemplate moving on, setting a boundary, or simply standing up for yourself.  If you’re crippled with fear by the mere thought of making a change then you can be sure that this attachment is holding you back.

Releasing attachments calls for the courage to do what you know you need to do but are terrified to do it. Once you’ve invoked your inner lion or lioness and shed what’s binding yet comfortable, you will rise to the next level. Ultimately you’ll stumble upon the very sticky place of  conditional love. Moving beyond this point is challenging and therefore very rare. Until then, we love a person when they act “right” and reject them when they don’t. Choosing to love a person no matter what they say or do comes from the ability to see with Compassion Vision. Compassion Vision is a gift we receive once we reach the point on our journey where we are able to look at a situation from above and see the bigger picture. Knowing that everyone does their best from where they are at any given moment, we are able to love them no matter what. Sometimes we have to part ways and take a different route, but when we do, it is in love and we allow them the freedom to go their own way while we continue on our journey.

The upward ascent requires perseverance and courage, but those of us who walk this path make it a little smoother for those who follow.

Are you in to manifesting? There’s a lot of confusion about how to reach your dreams. Here’s an acronym that came to me when I was journaling about the topic: CREATE!

C – Celebrate what you already have. Gratitude opens your inner portal so that you are able to abundantly receive magnetic life energy.

R – Receive divine guidance. Take time each day to connect with your spirit and identify your highest desires and the specific actions to take to move toward them.

E – Elevate above negativity. Keep your vibration high! Even the strongest desires tend to get bogged down with emotional drama and negative thinking.

A – Act on impulses. The moment you get hit with an idea, act on it! Don’t second guess yourself or procrastinate. The energy of inspiration infuses your actions with power.

T – Timing. Honor divine timing and learn whatever lesson is in front of you. Often times, we need refinement before we are ready for our desires.

E – Emulate Success – The best way to lift ourselves and others up is to graciously receive and demonstrate our gifts, talents and progress.

According to the World Health Organization, magnetic fields are created when electric current flows. The stronger the current, the stronger the magnetism.

The people who are most charismatic – most magnetic – have a strong current of life energy moving through them. Their ability to attract comes from the abundant energy that they naturally channel, which is based on three factors: integrity, clarity and passion.

The root word of integrity is integer, which means whole or complete. Wholeness is needed for energy to flow. The opposite of wholeness and integrity in a human being is fragmentation and division. This makes sense because when we make choices that are in alignment with our core values we become wholly integrated – a vessel without cracks, leaks or holes (the opposite of holy).

Clarity is the absence of emotional and physical congestion that tends to obstruct energy flow. I’ve found that emotional and physical congestion intertwine and that when we emotionally cleanse, it is natural to lose weight and crave cleaner living, and when we physically cleanse, we process old, stuck emotions as well. In other words, we can move toward clarity from any direction!

Passion channels life energy in a focused direction. Whether it is directed toward a person, a career or a hobby, passion turns a flowing stream into a raging river and raises magnetism.

Authentic magnetism is what gives us the ability to attract and what makes us genuinely attractive. Icing on the cake? The feeling that comes from life energy flowing through us at a high rate is joy and exhilaration.  Sounds like fun!

This Friday, February 18, I will be at the Well Red Coyote in Sedona for a book signing and talk. We will be exploring the principles contained in Portals of Peace… Moving from socialization to essentialization.

I’m looking forward to checking out this well known bookstore http://www.wellredcoyote.com/events.html and sharing some ideas on alchemical transformation!

Check an interview of me in this month’s Fitness Magazine to see why running on adrenalin isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be… http://www.fitnessmagazine.com/health/energy-boosters/tips/get-more-energy/?page=6